Nurture Principles

Mandi Kramer

I am thrilled to bring you this interview with “mom” (and former Biggest Loser contestant) Mandi Kramer. Ever feel like you are superwoman? Trying to juggle the needs of your kids, spouse, friends, and other family members? It’s a wonder you get ANY work done. Exercise and eating healthy seem more like a pipe dream. Of course you “want” to do it, but who has the time? You put yourself last over and again and sooner or later your behaviors catch up with you… and you’re frustrated, scared, or worried that things have spun out of control and you’re not sure how to get your life back.

Chances are, if this is not you, it is someone you know. So make sure they get to read this interview with Mandi Kramer. You may remember from the finale that Mandi and her sister Aubrey both struggled with weight loss on the ranch and when they got back home. The truth is… there experiences were likely to be THE MOST REAL compared to other contestants. I hope this interview inspires you. She has some amazing insights… and you can tell they are practical and EASY! Thank you Mandi for helping to change people’s lives – especially moms.

1. Why was it a good time for you to take the huge step to apply for The Biggest Loser as opposed to a previous year?

You have to want it so badly that you can’t even imagine not doing it — you have to wait for that moment when the switch goes off and you want it more than anything! Before this year I was happy living my life the way I was and then something just clicked to make this the year for me!

2. What three things did you learn on the ranch that most affected you and continues to influence you?

1. You have to eat to lose weight

2. Breakfast is the most important meal of the day

3. Don’t sit down — ever.

3. What do you think are the top barriers that get in mom’s way of eating healthy and exercising?

I think the top barriers are having easy foods for your kids to eat when they’re hungry and having no set schedule so you grab whatever is fast. When you grab what’s handy it’s usually unhealthy food. As far as being active goes, kids are really good at entertaining themselves so unless you force yourself to be active with them days will go by when you haven’t moved.

4. I’m sure now people come to you for diet and exercise advice – what are your top tips for struggling moms?

Always keep healthy snacks in your car like almonds, dried fruit, air popped popcorn in the bag, water bottles and chewing gum. Also — the “Sneaky Chef” book shows you how to make kid’s food healthy — go through cook books and make a list of what you need to buy to make specific recipes and stick to the list.

For exercising, I just had this same question from someone on my website, so I will borrow from my answer on my blog (www.mandiandaubrey.com):

Incorporate your kids with your exercise – take them to the park or the walking path or green belt – it’s fun for the whole family – helps you all get closer together – and everybody gets exercise.

Be really active with your kids – don’t just sit on the couch but get up and go play with them. You will burn more calories than you think if you are active with the kids.

I used to sit on the couch and say to the kids, “Go get this for me, run to the kitchen and get that for me.” Just making the conscious decision to get up and get stuff for yourself will make a big difference.

Mandi at BL Finale - Healthy and Fit

5. Describe a healthy lifestyle teachable moment you had with your kids.

I was afraid to have my sons try asparagus and I made it for dinner one night — and they loved it! If I just introduce a new food to them, they usually like it!

6. What day to day challenges do you face and how do you attempt to overcome them?

If I don’t get up and exercise first thing in the morning it is really hard for me to make the time later in the day. It’s easier for me if I get it out of the way first thing each day. Every meal that I eat I consciously have to be aware of what I am eating — it’s so easy to fall back into my old habits.

7. What would you say to a friend who has kids and is “in denial” about developing a healthy lifestyle?

People with younger kids — think about your kids — you want to be healthy for them. Even if you think “Oh, I’m not that bad …” if you are lying around and eating unhealthy food then that is what you are teaching them. If you have older kids, whether they say it or not, they are thinking it…a lot of kids don’t know how to say it to you without hurting your feelings. They know what’s going on — they are not dumb.

8. What would you say to a friend who has kids and finds it too difficult to change?

Think of your kids. Be a role model — you are not taking time away from them you are adding quality of life to them.

Links for Mandi:

Biggest Loser page – http://www.nbc.com/The_Biggest_Loser/contestants/current_cast/mandi/

Blog – http://www.mandiandaubrey.com/

Twitter - http://twitter.com/Mandikramer

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